Relationship Q&A | Dry Spells + Couples Therapy + Jealousy

Jenn Im

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    1. Jenn Im

      Happy post Valentine's Day! 💘 Ben & I are back for our annual relationship Q&A! We cover a lot of juicy q's in this one. Also we'd love to know what new personality trait you discovered last year.

      1. Lim Doyeon96

        @Sharbani Bhattarai waking up at 7:01 am is a great thing to boost my mood.

      2. Sharbani Bhattarai

        Omg my crazy ocd ass if driving nuts seeing her hair on her cheeks.Girl you stunning and that hair its everythingggg but the hair on your cheek omgggg i might die

      3. Диляна Димокова

        @Jenn Im Thank you! 🤗 And thank you for all the things you do! You are an amazing person! Thank you for sharing not only the good parts, but also the difficult ones and despite that staying positive! 💓

    2. Marie Auger

      I literally sent this vid to my bf saying "reminds me of us, please watch it" ahahaha

    3. J J

      LOL always reminded of how similar Jenn’s and my personalities are

    4. Olivia p

      Why are you dating with old guy?

    5. Julie Vantilt

      When Ben explained your patience is like a battery 🔋 ... HAHA that’s me!

    6. Gao

      Love how Ben pronounced “lol” exactly the way it’s spelled instead of el-oh-el 🤣.

    7. miywws

      This one made me feel better. I thought I was old finding my partner at 23 esp when I had been told women expire at 22 and stuff. We went through 4 month long distance and it wasnt too hard but it's been harder to come to the family that has a lot of violence, misogyny etc. In it. Communication has been a huge part of our relationship now as the environment has been so toxic.

    8. Lona Nyusou

      I can listen to them all day 😩❤️

    9. ticklethehedgehog

      Love that both of you are so eloquent and charismatic :)

    10. Brad Kelly

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    11. 59mmich

      Ben is so kind. What a warm soul. Jenn has such a pure heart! And her skin is FLAWLESS ✨

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    13. Sofia Ysabel

      sooo adorbs 🥺❤️

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    16. kriza clare

      I’m so in love with your guys’ love 🥰

    17. none

      If I see another Asian woman with white guy video I’m going to puke. 😂

    18. Yenitza García

      So... we live in a 1br apt with 5 pets and intimacy can get a little annoying when any of our pets gets needy. One of our cats will start meowing at the door when he hears us moving around and so sometimes we'll just throw something at the door that will make him go 'O h sHiT!" and he'll leave us alone for a while. 😂

    19. Zinniye

      I'm like Jenn lol. No poker face and no patience for long convos....

    20. Julianna beltz

      Love how honest you both are also congratulations on the baby! 💖

    21. Ivon Sandoval

      2022 video: there will be three!!! So excited!!

    22. Jane Huang

      Who's here after watching the pregnancy announcement? ALSO their outfits have a subtle yin yang vibe, love it 💕

    23. sarah199677

      thank you for this video!!! long term relationships and living together can be hard, and the fact so many people don't talk about the rough patches and dry spells can make it hard and make it feel as though you're failing. Appreciate the honesty and the lovely video- you're a fab couple

    24. Azuma

      this was seriuosly so JUICCYY

    25. ybbamochi

      I can definitely relate when you said that Ben is the more sociable/chatty person who can get along with anyone and talk for a long time, while Jenn is more straightforward and likes to keep things simple with conversation. Yup sounds like me and my bf 😂 That’s his gift though and it makes him happy, so I can’t help but be supportive.

    26. Avery Kinnaird

      Girllll I have no poker face and patience too!! I feel youuuuu

    27. mysticmusical

      Ahhh it's clothesencounters!! Took me a while to realized but I recognized your voice immediately. So glad you popped up in recommended. I took so many styling tips from you growing up. It's nice to see you're doing well 💕💕

    28. Jade Fonteneau

      Loved this Q&A. I’m quite new to your channel so it was great to find out more about you, your personality, your couple.. It looks like you’re in a very strong and healthy relationship. 🙌🏼 It’s really great to see that you’re both very open and willing to put in the work needed to make your relationship last and blossom.

    29. ShutUpStacy

      loved watching this video. thanks for posting and being so real. can see that you guys have put lots of work into your relationship. a true inspiration :)

    30. Delia X

      I was smiling throughout the whole vid 😊😊

    31. Brittany B

      “I’m so romantic I referred to you as an it” LOL

    32. Izzy Izzie Yzzy

      Down with wmaf 👎👎

      1. Izzy Izzie Yzzy

        @utf 8 ewww another one of you

    33. Anusha Jahagirdar

      No poker face and and no patience. That's 100% me! 😂

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    35. Isabella Masterson

      please please please make a podcast

    36. Nuri Way

      omg your relationship is so much like my parents like my mom is straight forward and doesn't like waiting for my dad to say goodbye to everyone and chatting for hours w/ random people and I love that

    37. Thuy-Anh Luong

      i love the way they interacting with each other. Cant believe that she is 31 already 😆

    38. Damilola

      wow jenn is so so so so pretty

    39. Renata Rena

      You are such nice people

    40. Sanne

      I am going through the most difficult time in my own LDR right now because it's been LD for too long, I guess.. so this video really, really helps :( thank you.

    41. Riwa A

      Hi jenn it's been years since I've began watching your videos, I am inspired by so many personal talks and topics you've shared .. marriage friendship health or even reading... so glad that you are evolving .. really hope you are always doing great and feeling the peace we feel when we watch your channel ❤ love Riwa

    42. Kathleen Dang

      Omg the question about what yall dislike about each other i can relate SO much my bf is so likable and social im kinda jealous but i feel like im always on the run

    43. Isabella Torez

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    44. Esther Perepechkin

      I once heard. Not just Communication is key, but communication and LISTENING 👂 ❤️🥰

    45. Christine Tran

      You seem to be such a lovely couple 😍. Enjoyed listening to your answers and perspectives 🙏 thanks for sharing 💓

    46. bubblelicious NIC

      i love the respect for each other

    47. Tyyne

      What a great video. Thanks for being open and tons of kudos for continuing to work on your relationship! I’ve been with my hubby for over ten years, we also did long distance for a long time and it is work but so worth it when you know they’re the right person!

    48. Marianne M

      I just want to give huge appreciation to Ben for embracing your channel in so many ways! :)

    49. Mel thor

      OMG I am JENN 😂 I am sooo impatient! And I tend to lose my tolerance with people. Its soooo bad. I'm working on it haha

    50. heydurian

      When Jenn said "compatible expectations," my mind was BLOWN. Such a great way to put it - relationships work if we agree with what to expect! Also, Ben's joke about Jenn's top - " lint rolling it til there's nothing left - got me laughing throughout the whole video LMAO

    51. Hannah K

      this was so cute

    52. emily todd

      i love this one xxxx so so helpful

    53. Nancy Tampi

      awwwww this is too cuteㅠㅠ

    54. Zahra Anwar

      You guys are so cuteeee 😭😭😭😭

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    56. Scoups08 Choi

      Ever since quarantine started I've been trying my best to develop a backbone. I badly need one. And realizing that I can't be too much of an empath towards others but not to myself

    57. Lorena Gutierrez

      Ahhh starting my day with y'all😌😌😌😌💓💓💓💓

    58. Jessica Isabelle

      Jenn and Ben are honestly such great individuals, but together, they're truly a force of nature. thank you for always being so honest with us viewers! we really appreciate your authenticity, both the pretty and the ugly x

    59. flowersehun

      i’ve been bens #1 fan girl since u guys met!! ur so lucky jenn :’)

    60. Claudia

      aiyo ben’s such a great guy

    61. Laurence Rousseau

      Omg, Jenn I am exactly like you - patience and poker face wise! It's so funny, because my boyfriend is similar to Ben - very patient and chatty ! haha

    62. Isabelle Willemse

      Loved this video!!!

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    64. Rayma Kochakkan

      jenn sounds like an aries moon

    65. Julia Thiemonge

      Having been in a long distance relationship-- it’s never easy but with the right person i think it deepens a connection like nothing else. There’s a pro about being able to be independent and grow as individuals that strengthens a union. I love my partner even more all this time later because i’ve seen them grow with and without me and we were able to come together through all this time

    66. zoe h.

      You guys are awesome🤣❤️

    67. yourfutureiscloudy

      Yass this was just what I needed!!! It was so fun to watch too :) Love you guys!

    68. Leak Ngel

      You guys are the one true power couple. 🙌🏻🙌🏻

    69. Phoebe Phi

      this shirt from jenn feels like she is an angel

    70. Belen De la Cruz

      This was awesome, thank you so much for this video, you have a great chemistry

    71. Oda Maria

      The answers to the last question gave me life today, you guys are the cutest 💖

    72. Alexis Galang

      sana makabalik ka sa bahay ko frm ghen gm

    73. Rochelle Luu

      awwww this is so cute! love these q&a’s. very honest and easy to listen to. would love to hear more from ben!

    74. mkp 80

      I adore this 🥰 the honesty in the vid is relatable- would love to see more this sorta content!

    75. lieybeth l

      I love how both of you looking each other, so connected to each other - apart the fact that while you recording you need to keep the eye contact to camera 💕

    76. Jordan

      She was so beautiful and now so bad looking. Oh my god

    77. Zubaidah Ahmad

      The anololgy of oven and popcorn is perfect.

    78. Thương Lê Thị

      Thank you for sharing those beatiful things. You two make my day. Hope that when I am ready I will find someone who are patient and generous enough to go through with me in every difficult moments of life☺☺

    79. Sooyon Kim

      More of these please!

    80. Pierrine

      which myer's briggs personality types are you guys? :*

    81. Aela Medicis

      I watch almost all your videos, rarely post a comment though... But damn this video is soooo nice!! You are both so honest and open!! thanks for this video

    82. Ingrid Jeungsmarn

      I’ve been following Jenn and Ben ever since their earlier days and they are literally my favourite couple. The way they understand each other, have boundaries, their openness about their vulnerabilities etc. really give me perspective as to what a healthy relationship should look like.

    83. angelie esmele

      Thoroughly enjoyed this talk!

    84. Jennifer Cork

      Jenn!!! Where did you get your cute sweater?!

    85. Sarah McKinney

      I have no poker face or patience either!

    86. ijyoyo

      Wow, this is amazing to see :)

    87. Angelnes56

      is he a leo? Im a virgo and my bf is leo and this sounds like us where he is so chatty and I am not

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    89. Shaq NMP

      the question abt getting insecure/lonely in a LDR really hit home but in a good way. It gave alot of insight but it also allows me to look at my own LDR. I just really appreciate you guys being honest and transparent about that part of your relationship

    90. Shooky is a Cookie

      I love your top / cardigan... will you restock it?

    91. It's Chezibelle

      Ben is like the Agony Uncle of topics. I thoroughly enjoy these sit down Q & A videos and when Ben said "Sex on Tuesday" really got me hahahahha

    92. Lily Rose

      this little piece of hair look like mic :D

    93. Lily Rose

      I loved the video. You both are so cute. I am waiting to find my other half :) Also did you film a video about how did you meet with Ben ? I would like to watch that :)

    94. Tiffany

      Love a libra / virgo relationship ❤️

    95. Barbora Juhásová

      I love this couple, You are a perfect fit for each other. The battery level part made me laugh (cause I am the same type)

    96. Noreen Husain

      bens a libra right? soooo libra

    97. Ngoc Anh Nguyen

      The way they look at each other makes me feel lonely😭😭

    98. Ojuolape

      I love how Ben has embraced this on-screen presence 😅

    99. Ube

      Ben being chatty to everyone. That definitely has to do with being British, because I can totally relate to that!

    100. 도종선

      안녕 도희 보고싶다 이모가